When you are with somebody else you will feel guilty, and how can you enjoy if you are feeling guilty? What enjoyment can be there? And if you try to have both, you will go neurotic. Many people are trying to have both and are going neurotic, because then you are pulled continuously, and you will destroy both. If you want those momentary joys, pleasures, of being sexually related to this person and that, then sacrifice relationship and all that is possible through it that has to be sacrificed.Īnd one has to choose, you cannot have both. ![]() ![]() The problem is natural and everybody has to face it. If you want relationship… and to want relationship means security, safety, intimacy, love. And only in a very, very intimate relationship can love grow – love needs time, patience. If you want all these things then you have to sacrifice your momentary desires – that somebody looks attractive and you are sexually attracted. A sannyasin asks Osho about her relationship and being attracted to other men.
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